一对相恋六年的情侣
因远距离的影响兼第三者的介入
终于宣告爱情死亡
六年了
双方都把对方看透了
彼此都已经习惯了对方的存在
是不是激情消失了？
除了人
难道爱情也终究敌不过时间的催残？
远距离是一个问题吗？
以前的我会认为是
曾经我也有过那么一段难熬的日子
刚开始时
真的会胡思乱想
真的会做错事
我比较幸运
做错了才知道什么是对的
做错了仍有机会去把错误擦掉再做过
现在
我还蛮喜欢远距离的
拥有自己的空间
那种能够自由呼吸的空间
感觉太好了
反而粘在一起太久会觉得有点腻
人的一生当中有太多的事情值得我们去做
只是把自己困进爱情的圈圈太浪费了
却不代表爱情可以儿戏
如果其中一方感情变淡了感觉没了
她不会就此说分手
如果在这个时刻出现了另一个人
她会突然发觉
原来她爱了六年的人不是她最爱的人
她爱的人现在才出现
所以她说分手
假设没有这一号人物出现
分手应该不会被提起
然后我能想象
六年以后
她会有同样的想法
她会做同样的事情
不断地从复再从复
或许时间会比六年更短
但我们能够拥有多少个这样的六年
曾经读过这样的一篇文章
意思大概是这样：
在这个世界里
能够跟你匹配的有至少千万个人
差别就在于你会先遇上谁
那千万份之一的机率就造就了你现在的情人
不是变心
而是在你遇见第一个之后
上天很仁慈地让你遇见第二个，第三个，甚至第四个
所以你会觉得后来那个才是你真正爱的人
其实只是时间上的差别
结果是
你这一次要守还是要攻
文章的最后是鼓励人忠于现在的选择
我却认为爱情是很诚实的
你选择了谁或许你自己还不知道
但你的一举一动已经泄漏了你的选择
我是支持忠于爱情，忠于感觉的那一方
通常这一类人都是背叛情人的那一类人
可是我不会用一段几年的感情去换一段只有几个月的激情
激情没了也只剩下感情
有时可能连激情所带来的感情也会消失不见
一段几年的感情真的需要几年时间的酝酿才真正称得上是几年
不要跟我说感情不是爱情
没有感觉你能知道什么是爱吗
爱情建筑在感情上
一见钟情是因为那霎那你还看不清楚对方的样子
让只是模模糊糊的印象吸引了你罢了
但我们只能清楚自己在做什么
别人的感情事
还是痒一痒，抓一抓就算了
但愿我们还真的懂自己在做什么
2008年11月25日星期二
2008年11月19日星期三
What is a "kiss"?
Professors of different subjects define the same word in different ways:
Prof. of Computer Science:
A kiss is a few bits of love compiled into a byte.
Prof. of Algebra:
A kiss is two divided by nothing.
Prof. of Geometry:
A kiss is the shortest distance between two straight lines.
Prof. of Physics:
A kiss is the contraction of mouth due to the expansion of the heart.
Prof. of Chemistry:
A kiss is the reaction of the interaction between two hearts.
Prof. of Zoology:
A kiss is the interchange of unisexual salivary bacteria.
Prof. of Physiology:
A kiss is the juxtaposition of two orbicular ors muscles in the state of contraction.
Prof. of Dentistry:
A kiss is infectious and antiseptic.
Prof. of Accountancy:
A kiss is a credit because it is profitable when returned.
Prof. of Economics:
A kiss is that thing for which the demand is higher than the supply.
Prof. of Statistics:
A kiss is an event whose probability depends on the vital statistics of 36-24-36.
Prof. of Philosophy:
A kiss is the persecution for the child, ecstasy for the youth and homage for the old.
Prof. of English:
A kiss is a noun that is used as a conjunction; it is more common than proper; it is spoken in the plural and it is applicable to all.
Prof. of Engineering:
Uh, What? I'm not familiar with that term.
Prof. of Computer Science:
A kiss is a few bits of love compiled into a byte.
Prof. of Algebra:
A kiss is two divided by nothing.
Prof. of Geometry:
A kiss is the shortest distance between two straight lines.
Prof. of Physics:
A kiss is the contraction of mouth due to the expansion of the heart.
Prof. of Chemistry:
A kiss is the reaction of the interaction between two hearts.
Prof. of Zoology:
A kiss is the interchange of unisexual salivary bacteria.
Prof. of Physiology:
A kiss is the juxtaposition of two orbicular ors muscles in the state of contraction.
Prof. of Dentistry:
A kiss is infectious and antiseptic.
Prof. of Accountancy:
A kiss is a credit because it is profitable when returned.
Prof. of Economics:
A kiss is that thing for which the demand is higher than the supply.
Prof. of Statistics:
A kiss is an event whose probability depends on the vital statistics of 36-24-36.
Prof. of Philosophy:
A kiss is the persecution for the child, ecstasy for the youth and homage for the old.
Prof. of English:
A kiss is a noun that is used as a conjunction; it is more common than proper; it is spoken in the plural and it is applicable to all.
Prof. of Engineering:
Uh, What? I'm not familiar with that term.
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